Monday, December 25, 2006

 

A bit about Hoi An, Vietnam

I should definitely write something about Hoi An, the lovely town where I am now staying. Hoi An is different from anywhere else I've been in Vietnam. It's a very quiet, laid-back city which retains a bit of a village-like atmosphere despite the fact that it's crawling with tourists. Hoi An was declared a World Heritage Site in 1999 due to its famous architecture which is a mix of Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese and European influences. The town has three main streets which feature traditional wooden shops/houses. Unfortunately, most of these buildings are now stores, art galleries or cafes catering to tourists. However, it's still quite normal to see elderly women with no teeth selling vegetables from baskets or a traditional funeral procession going by.

The chief sites to see are the famous Japanese bridge which connects two parts of the town. Adjoining the bridge is a small Chinese temple. There are also many Chinese Assembly halls, places where communities from different parts of China gathered to worshop and hold community activities. One of the most fascinating things to see were the old merchant houses. I visited one called the Tan Ky House which is beautifully-preserved and offers a peak into the lives of seven generations of a family which traded rice, tea and silk.

I also took a half-day tour to the famous My Son Cham ruins just outside Hoi An. The Hindu Cham kingdom was built between the fourth and 13th centuries, making them older than the Angkor temples in Cambodia. The temples are very impressive, very much in a similar style to those I visited in Ayutthaya, Thailand. They're set in a lush, tropical surrounding on hilltops. You are warned not to venture off of the laid-out track as the area is full of unexploded land mines. During the Vietnam War, the Viet Cong holed up in this area and the Americans bombed the heck out of this area, unfortunately destroying a large area of the temple compound.

During the tour, I met some really friendly, kind Vietnamese young people. The two girls giggled non-stop and took thousands of photos, mugging it up for the camera at each and every temple. The young man was more serious and looked a little bewildered but took everything in stride. They are all young professionals from Hanoi and spoke excellent English.

The boat ride back to Hoi An was lovely. While I'm used to living in close proximity to water in Amsterdam, it's slightly different. There, water is everywhere but it's not an integral part of life for me. I occasionally go on a tour of the canals or sit in a cafe or restaurant by the water. However, here in Vietnam, water is crucial as a transportation network, a place to bathe and wash clothes, a source of food, a necessity for agriculture, a force to battle during floods. More than any other place I've visited, Vietnamese seemed to be defined by water.

 

Happy holidays from Hoi An, Vietnam

Merry Christmas and happy Boxing Day from central Vietnam (a charming city named Hoi An). For my first Christmas in Vietnam, it was grand. On Christmas Eve, I met Tommy, the Vietnamese Guest Relations Manager, at the resort where I'm staying. (Guardian Angel #3). Tommy is young, friendly, hard-working and very ambitious: he typifies the new generation of Vietnamese professionals who are transforming the country's economy and who have big plans for their futures.

Tommy asked me to help him plan the resort's Christmas Eve dinner and party and to join him in leading a round of "Jingle Bells" and "We Wish You a Merry Christmas". We also planned a game of charades. Before the party, Tommy invited me to join him, his fiance and her family at home for a traditional Vietnamese meal. So off we sped, with me hanging off the back of his moto in my dress and heels.

It was very interesting to enter a middle class Vietnamese family home. House Description: There is a tiled front yard where family members park their motorbikes (four in total). The family run an Internet cafe and classroom which is where the main entrance is. Off to the side is a tiny alleyway which leads to both a formal dining room and a small kitchen with a dining table painted bright green. At the back of the kitchen is a small outdoor courtyard where laundry hangs and a few bonsai are arranged. There is a tiny little room in the back where their elderly grandfather stays. I only spied him once. He looks like a wise old man in his pajamas and wool capped pulled down with only a small, leathery face and deep-set eyes peering out. According to them, he likes to stay by himself in his room. I didn't get a chance to go upstairs to the sleeping quarters but there are three rooms. The house was spotlessly clean.

His family are wonderful, kind and generous people. Surprisingly, all of them spoke a bit of English and took great pleasure in teaching me some Vietnamese (strange sounds as in ow, awe, whaa, etc., which we hardly use in English). They squealed in delight when they met me and kept stroking my skin and pinching my cheeks. Apparently, people with dimples are considered sweet here. I faced a barage of questions: 'How old are you? Are you married? Do you like Vietnam? How much do you weigh?' (peels of laughter at my response and the words 'You are very strong' which I interpret to be a kind translation of 'You are fat'. I've heard that phrase over and over here when being described by Vietnamese people. It isn't hard to be 'strong' here. The women are tiny, just like "China dolls" as they are so often described. No tits, no bum, no hips, little body fat.

We sat down to a lovely dinner of salad, fried chicken and a very hearty chicken soup served in little bowls with chopsticks. They served a little of everything at a time. Now, I'm quite deft with chopsticks but I struggled with the fried chicken until they thankfully encouraged me to use my fingers. As soon as I did, the family joined in as well.

After a quick dinner, Tommy and I sped off to get ready for the party at the hotel. The guy with the keyboard was waiting so we practised "Jingle Bells" a few times. Then the party began, featuring Apsara dancers, traditional Vietnames minority dances, opera, and of course, karoake singing performed by one of the house cleaners, a security guard and Tommy. I now understand why karoake is so popular in Asia. It really allows people from every walk of life to pour their hearts and souls into their music in a way which is not necessarily available in everyday life here. These people that I greet everyday in the hotel were confident, happy, passionate singing sensations that night. You can't judge a book by it's cover is all I can say. Our rendition of "Jingle Bells" was a resounding success with the guests joining in heartily. Some lovely Americans from California saved our game of charades. Luckily, some of them were grade school teachers so were game for this kind of entertainment. The staff ended up moving the tables off to the sides so we could all dance to the karoake singers and keyboard player. It was lovely to see that even the hotel's general manager and one of its owners joined the guests dancing. The lovely Americans invited me to join them for Christmas dinner in town the next day.

So how did I spend Christmas? I slept in, ate breakfast and then Tommy and I headed to the market where I bought a bunch of flowers for his family. We were invited to share lunch with them, this time served in the kitchen. Then, Tommy took me to a tailor's shop. Hoi An is renowned for its cheap tailor shops where staff can whip up anything you want for very reasonable prices. I ended up ordering five linen kaftans, two cotton shirt dresses and two button-down shirts which would be ready in 24 hours. They can make anything: business suits from top-quality Italian wool, evening gowns of the finest Asian silk, wool winter coats in any colour. You name it, they can do it. Despite being sceptical about having shoes made, I broke down and ordered two pairs of leather, wedge-heeled strappy sandals in red and black which would also be ready in 24 hours. After so much shopping, I was happy to treat myself to a lovely oil massage and hot stone treatment at the resort spa. Ah, the wonderful ginger oil they used on me was heaven on earth. Later, I headed out for Christmas dinner with four lovely American women from California and Arizona: Sandy, Rose, Harriet and Anne. Sandy is the Mayor of a small town in California so all evening, we addressed her teasingly as "Your Eminence". The setting was lovely, beside the river in a garden with brightly-coloured silk lanterns, fish ponds and tropical plants.

Today, Boxing Day, I'm going to pick up my stuff and do some last-minute shopping. Tomorrow, I leave for the royal city of Hue.

P.S. The Vietnamese are incredibly hard-working people. Most work seven days per week with only a few days holiday per year, if any. The workday starts at 7 a.m. for manual workers, I've discovered, after being woken up at this time every morning as there is some construction going on on the lot beside my room. At first, I was really irritated at being woken up so early on my holidays but it's sobering to think that relentless work schedule is all they know. We are soooo blessed to live in the West.

This page is powered by Blogger. Isn't yours?